The Guest House

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There is no lotus flower without mud

Thich Nhat Hanh taught, โ€œNo mud, no lotus.โ€ This course invites you to meet difficult thoughts, emotions, and inner struggles not as obstacles, but as essential ingredients for growth. Just as mud nourishes the lotus, your inner challenges can become the very source of joy, peace, and loving-kindness. And not just that, they can be the gateway to awakening.

Many people believe meditation should always feel calm and pleasantโ€”but true transformation comes from embracing discomfort. This course shows you how to cultivate patience, compassion, and wisdom toward your โ€œwayward heartโ€ as it moves through different emotional states. Over time, youโ€™ll learn to meet inner challenges with kindness, clarity, and steadiness.

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Seiser Alm, Kastelruth, Italy

Putting out the welcome mat for our challenges

What if, instead of fighting difficult emotions, you welcomed them? This course teaches you to โ€œput out the welcome matโ€ for lifeโ€™s challengesโ€”building a resilient, non-reactive awareness that can hold space for discomfort without being overwhelmed by it. Paradoxically, these very challenges can become doorways to deep flow states, non-dual awareness, and profound inner peace.

What you’ll learn on this course

Through a range of meditative tools and techniques, youโ€™ll learn to:

  • Scan the body for emotional sensations
  • Break down emotions into their core components
  • Disentangle thoughts from feelings for greater clarity
  • Loosen resistance and soften your response to difficult emotions
  • Allow and welcome emotions instead of suppressing them
  • Access a spacious awareness that can hold emotions with compassion
  • Notice the absence of negative emotions
  • Investigate the โ€œselfโ€ that feels like the thinker or experiencer of emotions
  • Disengage the sense of self from emotions, leading to greater freedom

Rather than running from discomfort, learn how to face itโ€”and watch as it transforms into a pathway to peace, wisdom, and awakening.

Henry Shukman
Guest House in the mountains

This course borrows its name from a poem by Rumi:

The Guest House

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if theyโ€™re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.

He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

โ€” Rumi (trans. Coleman Barks)

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Recordings

Each session will be recorded. If you can’t attend live, and it will be made available the following day.

Questions?

If you have any questions about The Guest House, please contact our program manager Jeremy. Weโ€™re happy to answer any questions and look forward to having you join us!

Scholarships

We warmly welcome you to contact us if a scholarship would allow you to attend this course. Please contact our program manager Jeremy for details about how to apply.

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Hereโ€™s what students have said about Henry’s teaching:

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What I love about Henry is his foundational approach to building a sustainable practice that is emotionally supportive and feels empowering.

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Iโ€™ve practiced meditation with a number of teachers through my life over decades, but somehow Henry is getting through to me in a profound way. There is so much loving kindness in his voice and instructions.

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I canโ€™t say enough about Henryโ€™s gentle, encouraging, compassionate, oft-humorous and always insightful support.

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To deepen your experience in โ€œThe Guest House,โ€ weโ€™ve curated key sessions from The Way to complement your learning journey. These optional but valuable sessions offer deeper insights into core themes explored in the course. For this course, we recommend:

  • Retreat 4, session 9 โ€“ Sensing emotion
  • Retreat 5, session 5 โ€“ The third Hindrance: Worry (part i)
  • Retreat 5, session 6 โ€“ The third Hindrance: Worry (part ii)
  • Retreat 9, session 4 โ€“ Human emotions (part ii)
  • Retreat 9, session 6 โ€“ Whose mind is this?

Reviewing these sessions beforehandโ€”or revisiting them if youโ€™ve seen them beforeโ€”can significantly enrich your learning experience during the course. While not required, they offer a powerful way to deepen your understanding and practice.

About your teacher

Henry Shukmanย 

Henry is an authorized Zen Master in the Sanbo Zen lineage, the co-founder of The Way meditation app, and the Spiritual Director Emeritus of Mountain Cloud Zen Center in Santa Fe, New Mexico. In addition to teaching meditation, Henry is an award-winning author and poet. His struggles and traumatic experiences as a youth, combined with a spontaneous awakening experience at 19, paved the way for Henry to develop a well-rounded approach to healing and awakening through meditation.

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FAQs

Henry Shukman
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Zen Teacher, Author, Poet.
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